Be strong. Don't let nobody run over you, don't let just somebody lay you down. And when, at the beginning, you know how wrong is to pursue, how high you can fall, go back, follow another path 'cause if you can't see, at the end of the road, a gorgeous light, it's not worth it then. I've learned to fight for what I have in my hand, to fight for what I can grab strongly. Everything else, all the sand that falls easily, let it just go with the wind. Build a small castle and follow trough, you should want an empire for you.